Ireland with Sullie, Son John, and John Boles: We had No Choice

"Tá dul go hÉirinn cosúil le dul abhaile."  (Going to Ireland is like going home.) And so it happened that just a few times in Ireland proved to be insufficient for the likes of John Kennedy, Tom Kennedy, and Patrick Sullivan. After all, Pat had been to the island before but left before he had … Continue reading Ireland with Sullie, Son John, and John Boles: We had No Choice →

Obituary Addiction: More Popular Each Day

Yes, I read the Joliet Herald-News every day. Not for the sports, the local politics, or the news in brief since they are not as interesting as the obituaries. As Carl Reiner stated, "If you're not in the obit, eat breakfast." The habit of "obit checking" accelerates with each passing year for the "superannuated" generations. … Continue reading Obituary Addiction: More Popular Each Day →

John and I Find Irish Relatives

“Curiosity is what separates us from the cabbages. It's accelerative. The more we know, the more we want to know.” David McCullough (Taken from my journal notes) My first trip to Ireland in 1994 merely whetted my appetite in the search for relatives, any relatives, from Europe. The trip had been a terrific success and a … Continue reading John and I Find Irish Relatives →

The Game When Gordie Ordered His Hitter to Strike Out

Seldom does a coach tell his player to fail. Yet, Gordie Gillespie, recognized by the National Association of Intercollegiate Athletics as the “Baseball Coach of the Century,” did exactly that.  Catcher Ron Fordonski was ordered to strike out. Baseball players hate striking out.  For me and for most every hitter, that long walk back to the dugout … Continue reading The Game When Gordie Ordered His Hitter to Strike Out →

The Moment I Fell in Love with Adult Education

“Lucky, indeed, are those who have a moment of discovery that shouts out, “This is what I want to do!”  That moment when latent and, perhaps, unrecognized, personal strengths and desires are merged with an event that resonates within the very soul of your being. Congruent personal mission aligned with a need that pleads for your company leaves … Continue reading The Moment I Fell in Love with Adult Education →

Into Ireland the First Time

Tom, Carole, and Kenny From the time that Elmo O. Barnes, itinerant writer for the Wilmington Advocate, asked me about certain of my relatives in that city and I had no idea how they were part of my personal history, I was moved to learn more about tracing my ancestors. About 1972, I spent considerable … Continue reading Into Ireland the First Time →

Searching for a Missing Great Grandfather

“Ik werd verkrqacht doorde dokter.” (Translation: "I was raped by the doctor.")Evy Klaver These words might have been said in 1888 by my great-grandmother, Evy Klaver, an immigrant from Holland.  Evy was probably a domestic worker who spoke very little English. My Search for a Missing Link: Background Not many people get into genealogy research at … Continue reading Searching for a Missing Great Grandfather →

No Social Security, no Medicare, no Health Insurance: My Parents’ Lives in 1920s and 1930s

 “Your grandparents came of age in the Great Depression, when everyday life was about deprivation and sacrifice, when the economic conditions of the time were so grave and unrelenting it would have been easy enough for the American dream to fade away.”  Tom BrokawTom Brokaw The best way to study history is to start with our parents. … Continue reading No Social Security, no Medicare, no Health Insurance: My Parents’ Lives in 1920s and 1930s →